Childbirth is a normal, physiological process - a natural function of the female human body. Other normal physiological functions
include sleeping, eating, taking a crap, breathing, etc.
All those other
processes could be considered risky - for example, everytime you eat,
you run the risk of choking to death on something, or falling ill from
the food. But for the majority of the time, for the majority of us,
we are able to eat without falling sick nor choking.
Take eating... We don't take any
preventive "just in case" measures everytime we eat. We simply
eat without thinking about it, assuming that we will be fine.
So, why do we have problems trusting in the birth process, and that everything will be fine? Its different for each person, and to work through it, you need to know your own "why's" and "becauses".
Trust in birth. There is only one thing vital to the birthing
process and that is a mother giving birth. Everything else is just decoration.
The true journey and progress is made within each individual mother
and with each of her unique pregnancies and births. This is something
only the woman giving birth can do, not anyone else and it would be
arrogant to think that a birthing woman can't do what she is already
instinctively doing without support or assistance.
There is nothing to fear in birth. One should not be fearing
complications, pain, inability to birth, intervention, unwanted presences,
etc yet a lot of women have something to fear and that hinders the birthing
process.
Women who freely choose to have a freebirth, often have worked
out their issues beforehand and are left with a deep trust in birth
and themselves.
Trust in it like you would in your ability to eat and your body's ability to eat and process the food.
To give birth is to complete the cycle of creating a life, and
it should be as sacred as the act of creating it.

